You're Not Alone In This

Feeling Anxious

Anxiety is one of the most common reasons people reach out for support, and one of the most treatable. Here's what it can feel like, what can help right now, and how to know when it's time to talk to someone.

What anxiety can
feel like

Anxiety is your body's alarm system going off, sometimes without any clear danger in sight. It's exhausting, uncomfortable and very real, but it is not dangerous in itself, and it responds well to the right support.

  • A racing heart, tight chest or short breath
  • Thoughts that race and worry that won't switch off
  • A sense of dread that something bad is about to happen
  • Feeling restless, keyed-up or irritable
  • Avoiding places, tasks or people that never used to bother you
  • Trouble falling asleep because your mind won't stop
  • A churning stomach or nausea
  • Needing constant reassurance from others

Anxiety is your body trying to protect you, an alarm system doing its job a little too well. Alarms can be reset.

What can help
right now

None of these are cures. They're steadying practices that help while you find your feet.

01

Breathe out longer than in

Try breathing in for four counts and out for six, for a few minutes. A long, slow exhale is one of the fastest signals to your nervous system that you're safe.

02

Ground yourself: 5-4-3-2-1

Name five things you can see, four you can feel, three you can hear, two you can smell, one you can taste. It pulls your mind out of the spiral and into the room.

03

Move your body

A brisk ten-minute walk helps burn off the adrenaline that anxiety pumps into your system. It's one of the most reliable short-term relievers we know of.

04

Name it to tame it

Try saying to yourself: "This is anxiety. It's uncomfortable, but it isn't dangerous, and it always passes." Labelling the feeling reduces its grip.

05

Ease off the fuel

Caffeine, energy drinks and late-night scrolling all feed anxiety. You don't have to quit everything. Just notice what winds yours up.

06

Say it out loud to someone

Anxiety grows in silence. Telling one trusted person what's been going on almost always makes it feel smaller.

When to consider
professional support

Everyone feels anxious sometimes. It's worth talking to a professional when anxiety shows up most days for weeks, when you're avoiding more and more of your life, when it's interfering with work, study, relationships or sleep, or when you're having panic attacks.

Therapy for anxiety is one of the best-researched areas in mental health care, and approaches like CBT have helped millions of people. You can read about how they work on our Types of Therapy page.

Would you like to
contact help?

There's no pressure either way. Support will still be here whenever you're ready.

Need support right now?

If you or someone you know is in immediate danger, call 000. For free, confidential support any time:

Lifeline13 11 1424/7 crisis support
Beyond Blue1300 22 463624/7 mental health support
Suicide Call Back Service1300 659 46724/7 phone & online counselling